Last fall, a significant controversy unfolded at Triton Regional High School in Runnemede, New Jersey, involving three well-liked teachers—young men—who were arrested for engaging in inappropriate relationships with three female students. Additionally, two administrators, including the principal and vice principal, faced charges for their failure to report these relationships to the appropriate authorities.
On a recent Friday, two math teachers, Jeff Logandro, 32, and Daniel Michielli, 27, admitted guilt to conspiracy to commit official misconduct, resulting in a sentence of 30 days of home confinement and three years of probation. They are also prohibited from teaching in New Jersey again. Although they were initially charged with criminal sexual contact and child endangerment, these charges were dismissed as part of their plea agreement.
The day before, another teacher, Nick Martinelli, 28, who taught health and physical education, pleaded guilty to hindering apprehension. He was involved with another girl, but since she was 18, he avoided child endangerment charges. In court, Martinelli confessed to instructing the student to keep their relationship hidden from investigators.
These inappropriate relationships came to light in April when a non-victim student reported to a substitute teacher that some faculty members were “hooking up” with students. The substitute informed the principal, Catherine DePaul, 55, who chose not to alert authorities. Instead, DePaul asked the student to provide a written account of the allegations, while Vice Principal Jernee Kollock, 39, assisted by making edits to the report.
DePaul and Kollock were charged with official misconduct; DePaul has since pleaded guilty to failing to report a crime and received a year of probation. Kollock is still awaiting trial.
My Experience at Triton
In March 2012, just a month before these allegations surfaced, I presented my program, now known as Love Fraud and How to Avoid It, to the senior class at Triton High School. The audience was composed solely of seniors, and while some were clearly distracted, one girl caught my attention as she listened intently. I wonder, was she one of the victims? What was going through her mind at that moment?
Was Michielli, the senior class advisor, present in the auditorium? Were the other two teachers there as well? If so, what were they thinking?
Jernee Kollock was indeed there. She expressed to me that she’d never heard discussions around abusive dating articulated in such a manner. Yet, a month later, when a clear case of abusive dating emerged in her school, did she prioritize protecting the teachers over the students? What thoughts occupied her mind that day?
Abuse of Power
This scandal exemplifies a profound betrayal. The teachers, who held positions of authority, exploited their power over vulnerable students. A letter from the mother of one of the victims, which the assistant prosecutor read during the sentencing of Logandro and Michielli, highlighted this betrayal. The Associated Press reported:
The mother remarked, “Looking back now, I can see why she never wanted to get up and go to school during her senior year. Now I know how she spent her final year in high school living in fear of you and your actions toward her and the pressure from you to keep your secret.”
She further noted that her daughter’s “reputation, integrity, self-respect and self-image have all been compromised by the actions of her teacher,” adding that it was even more challenging for her daughter to cope with the community’s blame towards the girls involved.
The young woman Michielli allegedly had relations with was not present in court; her family decided it was best for her to stay away. The assistant prosecutor conveyed her mother’s feelings of disappointment towards the community, stating, “Most interesting to me is that a lot of the community blames the girls and their families.”
The mother’s letter conveyed her daughter’s feelings of isolation and humiliation, stemming from the community’s harsh judgments.
I don’t know if the teachers acted out of a disordered mindset or simply made poor choices, thinking they could evade consequences. I also wonder if the administrators experienced a significant lapse in judgment or if there was indeed “a culture at Triton High School where teachers thought they could get away with inappropriate relations with students,” as suggested by the prosecutor.
Ultimately, I cannot fathom what these educators and administrators were thinking. What I do know is that their actions betrayed not only three young women but also the trust of all their students.
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