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I reside just a few miles from where Hurricane Sandy made landfall in New Jersey. The bay swelled dramatically due to the rain, wind, and storm surge, and my home suffered significant flooding. We are gradually working through the aftermath.
In the weeks following the disaster, various officials came to our neighborhood to check on residents. Local city officials visited the day after we were allowed to return home. A week later, a FEMA representative knocked on our door, offering disaster assistance information. Shortly after, a woman from the Red Cross stopped by to inquire if anyone required help.
Yesterday, we encountered another visitor. A man in a bright yellow safety vest claimed to be from a utility company, here to ensure we received credits on our gas and electric bills due to the outages caused by the hurricane. He displayed a nametag with his photo from a utility consulting firm and requested to see our bills.
My husband, Jake, returned from outside to find them. He was slightly suspicious about a utility worker visiting us on a Sunday, but I thought he might just be trying to catch people at home. We retrieved the bills and stood outside as he examined them. I noticed the sleeve of his jacket had a Verizon logo.
The man proceeded to take down the account numbers from our electric and gas bills. Then he asked for my date of birth.
“Why do you need my date of birth?” I inquired.
“We need it to issue you the credit,” he replied.
“I’m not giving you my date of birth.”
“Well, then you won’t get the credit.”
At this point, Jake had had enough. “This isn’t right,” he said. “No one from the utility companies is coming around on a Sunday. We’re not doing this.”
“If that’s what you want,” the man responded, then he left.
A Manipulative Strategy
Jake and I suspect that the man was actually affiliated with one of those alternative energy suppliers. His entire narrative about providing us savings because of the storm was merely a tactic to get us to sign forms switching energy suppliers.
This experience served as a stark reminder of how easily some individuals can deceive others. The man presented himself as a helpful utility representative, attempting to secure savings for us. He patiently stood outside while we retrieved our bills and scrutinized them. When he requested our information, he sounded just like any ordinary clerk.
Even when we began questioning him, he maintained his facade without faltering. When Jake essentially told him to leave, he departed as if we were missing out on something beneficial.
He looked us directly in the eye and told lies without an ounce of shame. Even with my background knowledge about sociopaths, I was still taken aback by his composed and audacious performance. It’s no wonder that honest individuals often fall victim to manipulation.
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