A while back, a cherished friend gifted me a card with an uplifting message: “You, whose day it is, get out your rainbow colours and make it beautiful!” This traditional Nootka song has become a source of joy for me, and it has served as a reminder to brighten my days, especially when I find myself feeling a bit downcast.
Lately, I’ve encountered a few of those “off days.” You know the kind: a persistent cloud seems to linger overhead, casting a shadow over everything, even when there’s no real reason for it. The significant struggles I faced are finally behind me, yet I still find myself feeling somewhat drained. I’ve learned that dwelling on the “why” can often hinder my progress and lead to stagnation. So instead of ruminating on possible explanations for my temporary blues, I’ve accepted my feelings as they are. It’s okay to feel weary after a long battle; it’s just part of being human.
The Power of Questions
Am I suggesting that questioning oneself is valuable? Absolutely not! What I advocate is a shift in focus. Instead of asking why I feel low, I’ve started to explore what actions might lift my spirits. This doesn’t mean I ignore my emotions; rather, I acknowledge them. I’ve learned to express my feelings without needing to justify them. “Yes, I’m feeling a bit low, but that’s okay! It’s just how I am right now — all is well!” It’s taken years to master this skill, but it’s worth it.
I’ve found that talking to understanding friends can be incredibly healing. One such friend, who I truly appreciate, introduced me to the book “After the Ecstasy, the Laundry” by Jack Kornfield. He pointed out that after experiencing significant positive changes, it’s natural to feel a dip in energy while adjusting to everyday life. This insight helped me find some clarity and peace.
Awakening Creativity
Inspired by my friend’s thoughtful card, I decided to dive back into my art supplies. Painting and drawing have always been passions of mine, but they’ve been tucked away for far too long. Today, I rediscovered that joy and made a conscious effort to create solely for my own enjoyment, free from guilt or self-criticism. I wanted to relish the process, not just the outcome. And you know what? The artwork I produced genuinely reflected the joy I felt while creating it!
As I explored this creative outlet, I was reminded of the importance of intention. Bananarama’s notion that “it ain’t what you do, it’s the way that you do it” rang true for me today. The joy I experienced was amplified by the fact that I allowed myself to enjoy the moment.
Finding Connection
Interestingly, while researching the quote that inspired me, I stumbled upon a song that echoed its sentiment. It’s by a group called Wonderful from their album “Wake Up To Dreamland.” If you’re curious, you can find it as track number 5, “Rainbow Colours.”
As I continue to navigate my journey, I’ve come to realize that sharing our experiences, no matter how messy or imperfect, is powerful. We don’t need to be fully healed to inspire others. Authentic sharing fosters connection and reminds us that we’re not alone.
As we come together, we can support one another, and who knows? We might even witness some miracles along the way. So let’s all sing together: “Hey you, whose day it is, get out your rainbow colours!”
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Thank you for joining me on this journey, and may your days be filled with vibrant colors!