The expression, “He’s an animal!” often pops up in discussions about sociopaths. For those of us who cherish animals, this analogy can feel unpalatable. However, there are insights to be gained from this comparison.
In previous discussions, I introduced the concept of the Inner Triangle, a framework to understand the behaviors and motivations of sociopaths. This triangle includes our Ability to Love, Impulse Control, and Moral Reasoning. While I have previously explored Love and Impulse Control, this week, we will delve into the Moral Reasoning of sociopaths.
Animals and Moral Reasoning
Unlike humans, animals generally lack moral reasoning. They can express affection and exhibit impulse control, but they do not engage in moral reasoning. Other intelligent mammals do form social structures, but moral reasoning is not a requirement for social living. Social animals have leaders, known as dominants, who guide the group and control resources. These leaders often use charm, intimidation, and aggression to maintain their status.
The stark reality is that laws separate us from animal-like leadership. A sociopath behaves similarly to a dominant animal in its environment. Sadly, in many cases, humans are still governed by other humans rather than by structured laws. Often, these individuals in power resemble sociopaths in their behavior.
The Absence of Moral Reasoning in Sociopaths
While sociopaths can articulate behavioral rules, they fundamentally lack moral reasoning. They do not adhere to legal principles; instead, they navigate life by the “law of the jungle.” True moral reasoning goes beyond merely repeating rules; it requires an emotional connection to those beliefs. Sociopaths do not possess this connection, leading to behaviors that disregard societal norms.
Belief is an emotional tie to an idea, with values tied to what brings pleasure or punishment. Sociopaths may understand pleasure but exhibit a diminished response to punishment. Their emotional connections are primarily limited to power and sex, viewing others as mere resources for their desires.
Gaining Insight Through Understanding
Confronting the sociopath’s inability to love can inspire us to cultivate more love within ourselves. Similarly, recognizing their lack of impulse control can encourage us to improve our self-discipline. But what about Moral Reasoning?
Recently, I had a thought-provoking conversation with my daughter as she explored philosophical questions. She inquired if I genuinely believed humans are “superior” to animals. Given my profound respect for different species, my response focused on the significance of the American Constitution, a document that has shaped our societal values and leadership, independent of individual power holders. It is remarkable how our laws persist regardless of leadership.
Next time you hear someone express love for the law, consider your experiences with a sociopath. You may find a deeper emotional connection to those ancient sentiments.
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