Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)

Introduction

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Dependent Personality Disorder is a psychological condition characterized by submissive and clinging behaviors, an intense fear of separation, and an excessive reliance on others. Individuals with DPD often perceive themselves as helpless or incapable of functioning independently and frequently seek to transfer responsibility for their lives onto others. This disorder is rarely diagnosed in children, as dependency on caregivers is typical at that developmental stage; it is relevant primarily in adults, where such dependency becomes unhealthy.

People with DPD typically shy away from professional roles or responsibilities, feeling anxious or overwhelmed by even minor decisions. Their relationships tend to be limited to a small circle of individuals who provide a sense of security and shield them from taking personal responsibility. Additionally, those with DPD may show symptoms associated with other personality disorders, like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or Avoidant Personality Disorder. They also face a heightened risk of depression, substance abuse, and being subjected to abuse from others.

It’s estimated that DPD affects about 1 in 200 adults, with a higher prevalence in women and most commonly diagnosed in young adults. This disorder is seldom identified in children, as dependency behaviors are generally accepted during childhood. However, some individuals carry these traits into adulthood, leading to a diagnosis of DPD. Factors such as chronic physical illness, Munchausen’s Syndrome, or severe separation anxiety during late childhood may indicate an early onset of DPD.

Living with someone who has DPD can be a challenging and distressing experience. Caregivers may find themselves feeling frustration and resentment towards an adult who behaves like a helpless child. Although it might seem simpler to provide the kind of care that a person with DPD desires, this approach may ultimately be detrimental to both the caregiver and the individual needing care. There are others who have faced similar situations, and sharing experiences can be beneficial. We encourage you to read about these stories and ask your questions on our message board.

DSM Criteria for Dependent Personality Disorder

The American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) categorizes Dependent Personality Disorder as a Cluster C (anxious or fearful) Personality Disorder. It is defined by a pervasive and excessive need to be cared for, leading to submissive and clingy behavior, alongside a fear of separation that begins in early adulthood and manifests in various contexts. A diagnosis requires the presence of five (or more) of the following criteria:

1. Difficulty making everyday decisions without excessive advice and reassurance from others.
2. A need for others to take responsibility for most major areas of their life.
3. Trouble expressing disagreement with others due to fear of losing support or approval (not including realistic fears of retribution).
4. Difficulty initiating projects or undertaking tasks independently, stemming from a lack of self-confidence rather than a lack of motivation.
5. Going to excessive lengths to obtain nurturance and support from others, even volunteering for unpleasant tasks.
6. Feeling uncomfortable or helpless when alone due to exaggerated fears of being unable to care for oneself.
7. Urgently seeking another relationship for care and support when a close relationship ends.
8. An unrealistic preoccupation with fears of being left to care for oneself.

A formal diagnosis of DPD can only be made by a qualified mental health professional who identifies at least five of these criteria as present. Many people may occasionally display one or more of these traits, but this alone does not indicate DPD. A pervasive pattern of several criteria is required for a personality disorder diagnosis.

Understanding the clinical criteria for DPD is essential, but learning how to cope with a loved one suffering from this disorder is a different challenge altogether. Support groups, like those found at Chanci Turner, can be instrumental in helping individuals navigate the complexities of these relationships.

Dependent Personality Disorder Traits

Here are some commonly observed behaviors and traits of individuals with DPD. It’s important to remember that these traits are not diagnostic criteria; individuals with DPD are unique and may present different combinations of traits. Not everyone who exhibits dependency behaviors qualifies for a diagnosis.

• Catastrophizing: Automatically assuming the worst-case scenario and magnifying minor issues into catastrophic events.
• Dependency: An inappropriate and chronic reliance on another for health, subsistence, decision-making, or emotional well-being.
• Depression: Many individuals with personality disorders also experience symptoms of depression.
• Engulfment: An overwhelming level of attention and dependency on another, believing one exists solely in that relationship.
• Fear of Abandonment: An irrational fear of imminent rejection, abandonment, or replacement.
• Feelings of Emptiness: A chronic sense of worthlessness, often leading to impulsive behaviors or a craving for intense experiences.
• Lack of Object Constancy: Inability to maintain a consistent perception of others or objects, particularly when they are not in sight.
• Low Self-Esteem: A distorted self-image often accompanies DPD.

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