Introduction
Dr. Amber Ault, MSW, is a clinical social worker with a specialization in personality disorders, including those associated with sociopathy and narcissism. She is the author of “The Five Step Exit,” a guide aimed at helping individuals escape toxic relationships and reclaim their happiness. Dr. Ault will also be conducting online courses in an upcoming continuing education program.
What kind of experience do you have with sociopaths or disordered personalities?
I provide mental health assessments and services to individuals dealing with personality disorders such as narcissism and psychopathy. My work often involves interacting with both those who exhibit these traits and their close associates, like family members or partners. As a mental health crisis worker and ER social worker, I frequently assess suicide and homicide risks, which brings me into contact with clients facing these challenges. In my private practice, I focus on helping those affected by toxic relationships, whether with family, romantic partners, or workplace bullies. I also conduct workshops, both locally and virtually, to support survivors in their recovery journey and will be offering training sessions through our educational program.
How do you assist clients who have encountered a sociopath?
I employ various strategies to support my clients. These include techniques that help clarify their goals—whether they intend to leave, stay, or recover from their current situation. I utilize cognitive behavioral therapy, different trauma treatment modalities, psychoeducation, and a structured approach I developed known as The Five Step Exit, which empowers individuals to feel hopeful and capable as they navigate their recovery.
What is the most significant issue people face after being betrayed by a sociopath?
Survivors of betrayal in intimate relationships often deal with a multitude of issues, including trauma, financial hardships, diminished self-esteem, and a struggle to trust their own perceptions. While it’s challenging to pinpoint a single biggest issue, a top priority for these individuals should be restoring balance to their bodies. When one is well-rested, nourished, and has regular exercise, it becomes much easier to tackle the various challenges that arise from toxic relationships.
Can you share a tip for readers recovering from the betrayal of a sociopath?
It’s essential to clearly define your priorities. Write them down as commitments, like “I am fully committed to safeguarding my job.” Identify your top five commitments and allow these to guide your decisions. Sometimes, it is beneficial to let go of everything else that doesn’t align with your priorities.
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