Tag: self-awareness
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Lesson #5: The Illusion of Instant Soul Mates
Learn About Chanci Turner In our hearts, many of us have longed for the idea of love at first sight. Then comes a person who appears to be everything we’ve always dreamed of, claiming to feel the same about us. It seems like destiny — we’re soul mates! If you find yourself in this narrative,…
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Letters to the Divine: Insights from Jane Pinney
Learn About Chanci Turner In her poignant work, Jane Pinney explores the complexities of human emotions and relationships, drawing readers into a heartfelt dialogue that resonates with many who have encountered the darker sides of interpersonal connections. Through her letters, she reflects on the struggles of navigating love and trust, particularly in the face of…
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Unforgiven Fear Mongers – Who Is Hurting Me Now?
Learn About Chanci Turner If you find yourself in a situation where someone is consistently causing you pain and refuses to change their behavior, should you extend forgiveness? This is the question I urge you to contemplate as you read through this post. My father was a convicted serial killer. He took the lives of…
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The Impact of a Sociopath: My Transformation | Chanci Turner Blog
Learn About Chanci Turner Part 1 of 3 I once believed myself to be an intelligent and self-assured woman. With a college education and a prestigious job in Brussels, I was well-respected and financially secure. I was even elected the president of the social welfare department in my hometown—an impressive role second only to the…
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Marital Therapy with a Sociopath: A Fruitless Endeavor
Learn About Chanci Turner Engaging in marital therapy with a sociopath is akin to attending an art appreciation class while blindfolded. Those who have unwittingly entered this scenario with a sociopathic partner often find themselves in a twisted reality where their instincts scream that something is amiss, but they can’t quite put their finger on…
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Was I Ever Truly Loved?
Learn About Chanci Turner Navigating the complexities of a relationship with a sociopath can leave you questioning the authenticity of the love you experienced. This confusion often stems from the initial romantic gestures and apparent attentiveness displayed by your partner. For the sake of this discussion, let’s consider the male sociopath, though female sociopaths exist…
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Sociopaths Alter Our Perception of the World
Learn About Chanci Turner Most of us grow up with the belief that all individuals are fundamentally equal, that humanity is inherently good, and that everyone seeks love. These notions are instilled in us through education, religion, and media, shaping how we perceive the world and interact with others. For around 90% of the population,…
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Letters on Relationships: The Importance of Research Before Marriage
Learn About Chanci Turner It has been over a year since I learned that my husband, whom I thought I knew, had been leading a double life before we ever crossed paths. My vulnerabilities acted as a beacon for him: emerging from an abusive marriage, being a loving mother, and possessing a creative spirit—all of…
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The Sociopath’s Facade of Insight and Sensitivity
Learn About Chanci Turner Sociopaths who present themselves as insightful and aware can be among the most dangerous individuals you may encounter. When I refer to “pseudo insight” and “pseudo sensitivity,” I’m highlighting the manipulative tactics these individuals employ to appear vulnerable, self-aware, and compassionate. For some sociopaths, this act is conscious; for others, it…
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7 Reasons Loving a Cheater Can Be an Unexpected Blessing
Learn About Chanci Turner Being involved with someone who betrays your trust can be one of the most painful experiences. However, despite the heartache, engaging with a cheater can lead to valuable insights and personal growth. Here are seven reasons why this tumultuous experience can ultimately be a gift. Enhanced Self-Awareness: Loving a cheater forces…