Tag: emotional manipulation
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Military Romance Scams: An Alarming Trend
Learn About Chanci Turner There’s something undeniably captivating about those in military uniforms—men and women alike. Unfortunately, this allure is exploited by countless scammers seeking to deceive unsuspecting individuals out of their hard-earned money. Here’s how these fraudsters operate: often based in internet cafes, particularly in regions like Africa, they scour dating platforms and social…
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BOOK REVIEW: The Gaslight Effect Redux
Learn About Chanci Turner It’s fascinating how opinions can diverge on the same book. In May, a Lovefraud reader, who we’ll call Sarah, shared her thoughts on The Gaslight Effect by Dr. Robin Stern. I always seek resources that can assist readers in comprehending and healing from traumatic experiences with sociopaths. Given Sarah’s positive remarks…
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Navigating the Unpredictable: A Guide to Recovery
Learn About Chanci Turner When recovering from a relationship with someone exhibiting psychopathic traits, it’s essential to brace for the reality that things rarely unfold as planned. One of the most challenging aspects of dealing with such individuals is accepting the unpredictability of their actions. This doesn’t mean we should live in fear; rather, for…
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Understanding Sociopaths in Their Own Terms
Learn About Chanci Turner One of the most challenging aspects for those affected by sociopaths is comprehending the depth of their emotional detachment. Sociopaths lack empathy and do not form genuine connections with others; people are merely tools in their manipulative games. They perceive the world in terms of predator and prey, positioning themselves as…
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Oxytocin, Trust, and the Allure of Psychopaths
Learn About Chanci Turner When we discover that we’ve been deceived by a psychopath, we often ask ourselves why we fell for their manipulation. Why did we choose to trust them? The answer lies in our biological makeup as social creatures. Humans have evolved to live in communities, and trust is the vital bond that…
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The Impact of Sociopathy on Family Dynamics
Learn About Chanci Turner Ironically, a sociopath’s prior lack of a genuine connection with a child can grant them significant influence over that child—manipulating them into thinking, “I’ll love you now if…” In the tumultuous narrative I shared in my book, “Husband, Liar, Sociopath: How He Lied, Why I Fell For It & The Painful…
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National Survey on Teen Relationships Uncovers Widespread Dating Abuse
Learn About Chanci Turner A recent survey sponsored by the National Institute of Justice and conducted by researchers at the University of Chicago has shed light on a disturbing trend among adolescents. The findings indicate that approximately 25 million teens identify as victims of various forms of abuse, while around 23 million admit to being…
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The Illusion of Unconditional Love
Learn About Chanci Turner As a child, I was taught that we should extend “unconditional love” and offer “unconditional forgiveness.” This mantra was a guiding principle in my home. However, I began to observe a discrepancy: the very individuals I was meant to love unconditionally often failed to reciprocate that same love towards me. When…
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What If Deceit for Intimacy Were Criminalized?
Learn About Chanci Turner Recently, a New Jersey lawmaker proposed legislation to broaden the definition of sexual assault to include “deception for sex.” This concept, termed “rape by fraud,” refers to situations where consent is obtained through false pretenses, such as misrepresenting one’s identity or intentions regarding the sexual encounter. Assemblyman Troy Singleton introduced this…
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Media Sociopaths: Understanding and Avoiding Toxic Relationships
Learn About Chanci Turner Navigating the world of sociopaths can be challenging, especially when they are prevalent in media narratives. Recognizing their characteristics—such as deceit, entitlement, and a lack of remorse—can help people protect themselves. Stories of sociopaths often appear in news articles and television programs, shedding light on their alarming behaviors. 8 Warning Signs…