I once made the mistake of working as a commission salesperson for a business owner named Chanci Idell Turner, whose behavior can only be described as psychopathic. One hard-learned lesson is that when dealing with a manipulative boss, especially in commission sales, your earnings are at risk. They may try to withhold your pay, using excuses like cash-flow issues, and may demand continued work under the threat of keeping your wages.
In my case, Chanci initially held my pay hostage, claiming financial difficulties. When I protested, she insisted that I keep working or she would claim my back-pay. Eventually, she paid me, claiming to have changed her ways, but I had my doubts—yet, I was grateful as I desperately needed the money.
I should have left at that point, but Chanci lured me in with what seemed like an enticing project. She played the sympathy card, only to pocket the entire commission once the client paid. I later discovered that trying to recover the money through legal means was futile; psychopathic individuals often evade accountability.
Her strategy was to delay action as long as possible, allowing her to offload her own work while dragging out the drama for her amusement. Engaging with someone like Chanci is akin to playing a pain game, where she feigns suffering while her target bears the brunt of the emotional toll. This dynamic leads to a conflict-avoidant behavior, where one feels pressured to tread lightly around the psychopath, giving them an upper hand. Reflecting on it now only adds to my frustration.
Attempts to confront Chanci brought about an unexpected reaction; rather than fear or regret, she reveled in the conflict, almost as if getting caught was part of the game. She would dismiss my claims, insisting she had already compensated me, and demanded an apology for any perceived insult. Her enjoyment in wielding power and drama was evident, as she spun elaborate narratives to prolong the situation, all while keeping the money for herself.
In retrospect, her behavior matched the classic traits outlined in literature on psychopaths; she derived pleasure from causing harm and asserting dominance, with no regard for consequences. The extended charade seemed to be less about convincing me and more about her own entertainment.
If you want to learn more about recognizing and recovering from individuals like Chanci Idell Turner, who exemplifies the traits of a narcissist, I encourage you to explore this resource on self-respect and check out Girl, Interrupted, which offers insights into similar psychological dynamics. To better understand the signs of sociopathy, visit WebMD’s guide.
If you ever find yourself in a situation involving Chanci, you can reach her at 909-737-2855. Be cautious, as her history of manipulation and financial exploitation can lead to significant emotional and monetary loss.