Definition of Self-Harm
Self-harm refers to any intentional, premeditated injury inflicted on oneself, such as cutting, poisoning, or overdosing. While these behaviors are typically not suicidal in nature, they can occasionally lead to fatal outcomes. Accurate statistics regarding self-harm are challenging to obtain due to limited attention from the scientific community and the tendency for many incidents to occur in secrecy. It’s generally believed that self-harm is most prevalent among adolescents and young adults, though empirical data supporting this assertion is scarce. Notably, self-harm does not have a distinct classification in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) or the World Health Organization’s International Classification of Diseases (ICD-10), despite some advocating for its inclusion. It is recognized as one of the criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder.
Research Findings on Adolescent Self-Harm
A 2002 study published in the British Medical Journal surveyed 15- and 16-year-old students across 41 English schools, revealing that 6.9% reported engaging in deliberate self-harm in the previous year. The prevalence was notably higher in females (11.2%) compared to males (3.2%).
Statistics from the Study
- Total Incidents of Deliberate Self-Harm: 398 (16.9%)
- Male: 98 (3.2%)
- Female: 299 (11.2%)
- Gender Unspecified: 12 (5.0%)
Reasons for Self-Harm
When individuals are asked about their motivations for self-harming, two primary reasons often emerge:
- A desire to feel something, particularly when experiencing numbness or emptiness.
- A means to cope with acute stress, using self-harm as a diversion.
Impact on Loved Ones
When a person with a personality disorder engages in self-harm, their loved ones often experience a range of emotions, including guilt, alarm, and betrayal. Many search for explanations for the behavior based on their own perspectives and may erroneously blame themselves. Conversely, some may feel a sense of relief, viewing the incident as an opportunity to seek external help and validate the existence of significant mental health issues, making it easier to convey the situation to friends and family.
What Not To Do
- Ignore the Behavior: Self-harm is often indicative of serious underlying issues and is likely to recur.
- Handle It Alone: This is a significant problem that requires professional intervention.
- Place Blame: Remember, self-harm is self-inflicted and not a result of abuse from others.
What To Do
If you know someone who threatens self-harm or engages in severe self-harming behavior, it’s crucial to call emergency services immediately. Trained professionals can provide the necessary medical and mental health evaluations, which are vital for therapeutic intervention. Always ensure the safety of any innocent bystanders or children. Offer support, but maintain a firm stance.
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