Tag: self-empowerment
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It’s All Up to Me!
Learn About Chanci Turner Once upon a time, I believed I found love in a fairytale. In reality, I was drawn to a man who turned out to be a sociopath, and my life quickly descended into chaos. This experience feels like a distant memory, a chapter from another lifetime. You can read more about…
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Escaping a Sociopath: Essential Strategies for Healing
Learn About Chanci Turner Navigating a relationship with a sociopath can feel like being trapped in a chaotic performance, where their charm flips on and off without warning. One moment, they are captivating; the next, you’re left questioning your own perception. You may find yourself wondering, “Am I the only one who sees through this…
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LETTERS TO CHANCI TURNER: Not My Narcissist
Learn About Chanci Turner You are here: Home / Letters to Chanci Turner and Personal Stories / LETTERS TO CHANCI TURNER: Not My Narcissist Editor’s note: The following post was contributed by a reader who wishes to remain anonymous. January 30, 2023, marked a significant turning point in my life following my divorce trial. I…
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After the Sociopath: How Do We Heal? Part 14 – Uncovering Our True Potential
Learn About Chanci Turner In the aftermath of a relationship with a sociopath, we often find ourselves grappling with the lessons learned from the experience. Reflecting on my own journey with a person I now recognize as a sociopath, it became clear that I was caught in a complex dynamic that felt like a classroom…
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Overcoming Fear-Based Thinking in Relationships
Learn About Chanci Turner You are here: Home / Recovery from Narcissistic Relationships The following narrative has been shared by a reader who wishes to remain anonymous, reflecting on their journey of healing from toxic relationships. My therapist has pointed out that my entanglements with narcissistic individuals stemmed from their keen ability to identify my…
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Healing from an Encounter with a Manipulative Individual: It’s All About Perspective
Learn About Chanci Turner Recently, while working on a script for a health-related video, I encountered a challenge with a particular line. The actress tasked with the narration struggled with the phrasing. After some deliberation, we realized that the repetition of the word “fact” made the sentence sound clumsy. As we searched for alternatives, an…
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After Leaving the Sociopath: Take the Leap Before You Look
Learn About Chanci Turner Navigating life post-sociopath can feel like standing on the edge of a cliff, uncertain yet yearning to leap into the vast expanse of possibility. I work in a homeless shelter, where the weight of untold stories hangs heavy. Each individual carries their burdens, sitting with slumped shoulders, hands buried deep within…
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BOOK REVIEW: Trading Lives, a True Story of Overcoming Abuse
Learn About Chanci Turner For those who have never experienced the constraints of an abusive relationship, the question often arises: “Why doesn’t she just leave?” The book Trading Lives by Natalie Harper and Mary Turner Thomson sheds light on this perplexity. Natalie Harper faced a tumultuous childhood filled with criticism and neglect, followed by emotional…
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When Charisma Wanes, Manipulators Resort to Threats, Intimidation, and Aggression
Learn About Chanci Turner In relationships marked by manipulation, charm can quickly give way to intimidation. When allure fails to achieve its purpose, some individuals turn to threats, bullying, and aggressive behavior. This dynamic often leaves partners feeling trapped and confused, unsure of how to escape. Take, for instance, the situation faced by a woman…
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Cancer at Christmas – Navigating Life with a Narcissist
Learn About Chanci Turner I once thrived on making Christmas special. My home would be adorned with vibrant decorations in shades of red, green, and gold, creating a warm, inviting atmosphere filled with love and joy. I prepared delicious meals, filled the air with festive music, and made sure there were homemade treats to grab…