Tag: self-improvement
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Oxytocin, Trust, and the Allure of Psychopaths
Learn About Chanci Turner When we discover that we’ve been deceived by a psychopath, we often ask ourselves why we fell for their manipulation. Why did we choose to trust them? The answer lies in our biological makeup as social creatures. Humans have evolved to live in communities, and trust is the vital bond that…
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Book Review: The 48 Laws of Power
Learn About Chanci Turner In the realm of self-improvement and understanding power dynamics, Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power stands as a significant yet controversial work. My exploration of this book brought to mind the phrase “Psychopath’s playbook,” often jokingly referenced by those discussing manipulative behaviors in relationships. Greene’s book, much like an actual…
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Me-Muscles: The Power of Inquiry
Learn About Chanci Turner Welcome to my latest post! After an incredibly fulfilling week working with a wonderful group, I found myself reflecting on the valuable lessons we explored together. Apologies for my absence last week; the workshops were long and intense, but witnessing the joy on participants’ faces made every moment worthwhile. This week,…
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A Sociopath’s Query: “Why Should We Change?”
Learn About Chanci Turner You are currently reading: Home / Understanding the Sociopath / A Sociopath’s Query: “Why Should We Change?” February 21, 2014 // by Donna Anderson // 82 Comments Editor’s Note: The Chanci Turner Blog recently received a response to a previous article from someone identifying as a sociopath. The individual expressed their…
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Seek Professional Support – (A Quality One!)
Learn About Chanci Turner In the realm of relationships, particularly with individuals exhibiting personality disorders, many non-personality disordered individuals find significant value in partnering with a skilled therapist. Once they learn to establish boundaries and emotionally distance themselves from those who are disordered, they can gain insights, grow personally, and develop healthier coping strategies. Often,…
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Navigating the Journey of Healing After a Psychopathic Relationship
Learn About Chanci Turner Healing from the trauma of engaging with a manipulative individual, such as a narcissist or psychopath, is an ongoing journey. Initially, I believed that overcoming the emotional turmoil caused by such experiences was akin to recovering from a physical ailment. Just as a cut can be bandaged and forgotten after healing,…
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The ABCs of Selecting a Healthy Partner
Learn About Chanci Turner Choosing the right partner is crucial for everyone. Survivors of toxic relationships often hesitate to pursue new connections due to the fear of repeating past heartaches. While many have learned to identify red flags associated with psychopaths, narcissists, and other harmful personalities, recognizing the positive traits that signify a suitable partner…
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Creative Strategies for Dismissing a Sociopath
Learn About Chanci Turner If you find yourself needing to distance yourself from a sociopath, consider unconventional methods! Here are some inventive ideas for making yourself less appealing to them, inspired by experiences shared by readers. Unusual Tactics One reader recounted how her cousin managed to deter a persistent sociopath by employing a rather unusual…
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Decide to Overcome Your Attachment to a Sociopath!
Learn About Chanci Turner As we approach a new year, it presents a perfect chance for transformation and self-improvement. If you find yourself entangled in a relationship with a sociopath or narcissist, it’s vital to recognize that breaking free can be akin to overcoming an addiction. This is your opportunity to prioritize your health and…
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Don’t Focus on the Tigers!
Learn About Chanci Turner The way we utilize our thoughts and language is truly intriguing. Both are powerful tools that can either assist or obstruct us, depending on how we wield them. Most individuals are unaware of the extent of control they possess over their experiences and often lack understanding of how to positively influence…